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My Experience With A Slave Lent Out To Me - Part 1

I recently received a phone call from a young lady who got my name from a friend of Sarah. After briefly introducing herself, she came out and asked if I was interested in having a male slave. At first, I said 'excuse me, what'?

How Will Submissive Men Feel Once They Have A Mistress?

The blog was started as a way to share information about the unique lifestyle that Jack and I have. While it is not for everyone, there are a lot of submissive men in the world. What I didn't count on was the number of men that got hooked on the blog. The blog became a tonic for their addiction to the world of dominant women.

How To Establish Authority in The FemDom Relationship: Small Obstacles

Jack should be home early this afternoon. His only job for today is to wash my car and put gas in it. One of the privileges of being a 'boss lady' is having a man to take care of those things. The Saturday morning 'golf outing' made me wonder if we could truly have a 'fem/dom' marriage. Jack did come home that Saturday afternoon. My words to him were simple, we could end 'this thing' now or he would accept my punishment. Not accepting my punishment meant that he would be out of the house, again.

FemDom And Female Led Relationships Are Normal

One of my favorite blogs is 'whatever she says'. In the profile, the writer states that in his opinion most marriages are female led. I agree with this statement. He goes on to say, however, that the difference in his marriage, or a true WLM, is that the guy has acknowledged the wife's authority, and she has formally accepted her role as head of the house.

Do You Let Your Slave Vote? Here's How To Handle Voting In FemDom

In the last presidential elections, Jack and I went to vote. On the way out I asked Jack who he voted for. He answered "the way you instructed me to vote, mistress." That earned him a "good boy".

How To Use Humiliation In FemDom: An Important Anecdote

I learned early on that humiliation can be an effective way to keep the male ego under control. It is amazing the power that simple things, like women's underwear has on a man. It is both the act of buying the underwear, and wearing it.

How I Accepted And Understood My Husband's Desire To Be Submissive

When I discovered that Jack had been paying money to see a dominatrix, it was like my whole world came crashing down. At that moment I didn't want anything to do with him. Aside from the simple idea that he was paying money for sexual services of some kind, it was money that we needed for our family.