In some ways men seam to want the feeling that the wife is in control, but then they want to be the person pulling the strings. Remember the old expression, he who has the gold makes the rules. I think this is true in a marriage as well as in business.
I slowly began to understand what Kimberly told me on our first visit, 'at least he is not an ax murderer'. It was then I made the first step toward reconciliation. Jack was so surprised when I called him. Without prior discussion I simply told him that it would be good for us to talk in person. I could sense his fear on the cell phone. He thought I was going to ask for a divorce.
When I started to write I was thinking about the importance of friendships to the dominant wife. It is very hard to make the transition from wife to mistress on your own. Kimberly introduced me to a lady that she had worked with the previous year. This lady and her husband had going to see Kimberly as a couple. In tern this lady introduced me to a small group of women who dominated their husbands to a greater or lessor degree.
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