FemDom And Female Led Relationships Are Normal

One of my favorite blogs is 'whatever she says'. In the profile, the writer states that in his opinion most marriages are female led. I agree with this statement. He goes on to say, however, that the difference in his marriage, or a true WLM, is that the guy has acknowledged the wife's authority, and she has formally accepted her role as head of the house.


The statement got me to thinking about people we know, friends and relatives. There are two types of WLMs. First, there is the traditional kind, where the couple has developed a tradition of the wife being in charge, but no one ever talks about her authority. I call this a 'yes dear' marriage. This is the type of marriage my parents had, and it worked very well for them.

The relationship Jack and I have is more of a 'yes mistress' type marriage. Jack has offered himself to me as a slave husband, and I have agreed to take charge of him. He wears my collar as well as the ring I gave him.

Some people may consider the relationship Jack and I have as being on the 'kinky' side. However, in my opinion our 'yes mistress' relationship is just one step further along than a 'yes dear' type marriage.

In my opinion it is both normal and healthy for a man to pledge obedience to the women he loves. 

To me, a man is never so sweet and loving as when he is on his knees.

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