How To Manage Money In A FemDom Relationship

In some ways men seam to want the feeling that the wife is in control, but then they want to be the person pulling the strings. Remember the old expression, he who has the gold makes the rules. I think this is true in a marriage as well as in business.

To get started I think men and women have a different view of money. 

A women sees money as the means to purchase the things she needs and wants. Men see money as an ego thing. In a man's mind the guy who makes the most money is better than someone who makes less money. To a large extent I see tightly controlling the money Jack has access to as a means of controlling his male ego. The fact is that he does make a good living, and in a sense he needs to be proud of that, but not too proud. Jack, like any slave husband, needs to always remember that the money he earns belongs to his wife and mistress, not too him. As far as I am concerned, the ownership or control of money should never be an issue in a 'fem /dom' marriage. A submissive husband should be proud of the money he earns for his wife.

Although Jack earns most of the money there are no accounts in his name. He is not allowed to see any of the bank statements that come to our house. In our house I make the buying decisions. What I don't want is Jack saying something like, why can't we buy the new car, we have the money. As far as Jack is concerned the simple answer from mistress is either a yes or a no. I do not want to ever have to explain myself to a husband.

Like most men in a FemDom marriage arrangement Jack does receive an allowance. 

If he has the money to buy a book or something, he may do so. If he does not have the money, and he wants something, he knows to ask the 'may I' question to his mistress. This may be somewhat humiliating for a man, but that is part of being a slave husband. I am not a total bitch. He usually gets what he wants, but it is important for me that he ask. This enforces the idea that the money belongs to mistress. Jack is never allowed to go into a magazine stand where they sell porn.

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