The beginning- Our FemDom story, Part III

After some hesitation, I called. A man answered. There was no way I was going to ask to speak with Mistress Kimberly. I briefly explained to him that my husband had been seeing a lady by the name of Kimberly, and that I wished to speak with her. 




I really thought he was going to hang up the phone, but after a few minutes a female voice answered with a ‘hello, I'm Kimberly, how can I help you.’ I remember the knot in my throat as well as I remember anything that happened on our wedding day. I just told her that my husband had been one of her customers, and that I would like to talk with her.

Without hesitation, she 'Kimberly' invited me to her studio, as she called it. 

She said, don't worry, her studio was female friendly to a degree and she would love to visit with me. The door was opened by a middle age man wearing yellow panties and a big yellow ribbon in his hair. I was a little taken back by the site of this gentleman, but he was extremely polite. As he took my rain jacket, he did a curtsy, and bowed his head. At that moment Kimberly came walking in. She greeted me with a smile and a handshake. With Kimberly in the room the gentlemen no longer spoke. He just looked down and followed us to the living room. She instructed him to bring us each a glass of wine. Again, as he entered the room, he did a curtsy. In my entire life, I have never dreamed a man would ever act so subservient in front of a woman. I was embarrassed for him. She simply dismissed him from the room with a small swipe of her hand. He did a curtsy and left. I thought this woman may be a bitch and thief, but she knows how to handle men.

Kimberly, excuse me, 'Mistress Kimberly' and I spoke for well over three hours. 

We talked about her, her education, and how she got into this type of work. We talked about men. We talked about men in general, and then we talked about my Jack. That part of the discussion left me flabbergasted. She knew so much about Jack. She knew the names of our children, their ages, and where they went to school. She knew what we both did for a living. Above all, she knew that Jack was very submissive. The disturbing part was that she seemed to know more about Jack than I did. One of the ideas that Kimberly has is that just about everyone puts on a different face depending on the role they are playing. As a military officer, Jack acted a certain way. As a husband, he acted another way. The way he acted in each role was dependent on the expectations that were put on him. She explained, however, when a man kneels before his dominatrix he usually bears his full heart and soul. For her being a dominatrix was not about sessions or just doing what the man wanted her to do, it was about getting to know his inner self. She knew how to bring out the inner submissive self that for many men had been locked away since childhood.

As FemDom mistress, I have received countless emails of people asking me how to begin a successful and long-lasting FemDom relationship. This blog here is an attempt to recount some old stories, but if you want to take your FemDom relationship seriously I recommend that you check out my book, The FemDom Relationship Guide: How Submissive Men and Strong Women Can Have Successful Long-Term Relationships. You can check it out on Amazon or read the post introducing my book, where I describe how I started my FemDom relationship and how it developed.

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